>>1190248My computer crashed and ate my paper.
In summary, though: Everyone is not a bit weird, everyone is a
lot weird, but people tend to assume that everyone is very similar up until the point that it causes problems, so they're all completely unaware of the fact that no one is particularly similar.
As a result, people really want the people who are very obviously weird, like autists, to stop being weird. But there's no particular cause or cure to point at when it comes to autism, because the weirdness is actually very normal and common to the entire population, just it has manifested in the rest of the population in an even less obvious way.