Well, I directly experienced it and it was what it was. You can criticize me for not discussing it with you when in fact my attempt to do so was met with indignation and vitriol as you attempted to squash my feelings in the way that you addressed me. If that's not what happened in your opinion, that's still the factual reality of what I experienced.
Further, as I explained, words directed to another can offend other people for example if I used a racial slur for black people against anyone, it would offend you and I find your ongoing accusation that I am offended because I am wrong and therefore not offended, or not offended and trying to cause trouble as a "white knight", to be in and of itself deeply disrespectful and dismissive of my feelings. Whether you intend that or not, which I am not assuming. It's how it comes across to me, and that you cannot rebut because it is simply true.
Fortunately, I seem to be wearing a thicker skin today so I no longer care. I already regret having said anything, and I accept that it's not going to accomplish anything anyway because no one, least of all you, will hold you accountable for your words followed by circular evasions to any attempt to discuss it with you, unless you are able to reach the conclusion that no one got hurt and you got away with your careless hurtful words yet again.
Notice I said "careless" not deliberate. Somehow I am convinced that you don't mean to be such an unpleasant person. But my point has never been that you are unconscionably mean and nasty on purpose (or if it ever was, then I was wrong and I don't remember it anymore), but has been that you hurt my feelings and you demonstrate a lack of concern about having done so, and then attempt to force me to take the blame for what you have done to me. I dunno, as I've said before maybe it IS all my fault. I should probably not be here to be so easily damaged.
Regardless, today I don't care anymore. Other than regretting the debacle that I caused trying to make a stand on this issue. I know I should just let it roll off, and today it has. Yesterday, it was different.
I really would appreciate if you at least try to listen to someone whose feelings are hurt and make a genuine attempt to understand how your words were involved instead of alPost too long. Click here to view the full text.