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Well I suppose I should explain about what this is about and what I'm doing here before I do it. A lot of you know that I have issues, then again who doesn't. To try and learn to address them I've been reading a lot of self-help books and the like. 5 posts and 2 image replies omitted. Click reply to view.
Funny thing is in a lot of cases there are activities and things that I should do to try and reach out to people, get things out in the open and learn to talk, confront and gain understanding about everything. Problem is that out of fear and laziness I've never really done that.
I'm thinking it's time that I start to step up and actually work on it for my own sake
Currently one book that has helped me is "No More Mr Nice Guy" Which for the most part talks about how a lot of men are basically taught by parents and society to be basically passive, overly kind and very weak men in order to avoid causing friction in life and to have a problem free existence with everything they dream of being given to them
>Admittedly a bit of an exaggeration
Anyway, it has some breaking-free activities that the book wants me to do. The first was to identify a safe group that I can do the breaking free activities with. I've really learned to trust people here and I believe that this should be a safe group for me. So I'm going to try and do the activities here with everything that would like to help.
I'll be posting the result of the first activity here in a moment
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I actually did some Zen mediations as well back in the past. I should try to get back more into it>>536738
Well the hope is that it will help in the long run. Gotta give it my best effort and see what happens>>536741
Yes, yes and yes. I could give a lot of cases but for right now I have a 12K debt because I was too nice to question my stepdad, I have a roommate that hasn't paid rent in months because I'm too kind in waiting for him in getting a job instead of kicking him to the curb. I'm too weak because I'm probably going to lose my house in all this, though a part of me kinda wants to so I have an excuse to kick everyone out and live alone for a while. And I feel too passive because I just… don't have the energy to fight it much anymore>>536747
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can't wait to hear about your progress! get out of your comfort zone :)