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 No.1190966[View All]

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You know, when i made Ponyville, i dreamt that it would be a place of peace, and harmony... to correct the mistakes of Ponychan such that one day, all of the friends would come back.

Like in the Lorax!

But, instead, in my desire to create a tolerant and hands-off environment, we have created a place where kindness struggles to thrive, and bad faith behavior is everywhere. You know that story, about the nazis, and the nazi bar?

i hate to say it... but we've become a nazi bar, and it is my fault for not taking harsh action and trying to force all of you to love others into being, instead of giving you a safe space to thrive. for allowing weeds masquerading as plants into our garden, forcing so many of you out.

There are trolls constantly raiding that our tools cannot control, and who would love nothing more than to see the site shut down

And the good users, who try their best to tolerate it, just can't handle it anymore.

for those of you who are left... the very few of you who remain... i'd like to hold a referendum.

May i turn on accounts, that require passwords, and vetting?

It might be too little, too late, but better late, than never.

What would you like to see done?
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 No.1191838

>>1191380
I know you guys are long gone, but thanks for starting this fandom and making a good impact on my life that is still felt today

 No.1191841

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>>1191837
I think we've found your problem poster guys

 No.1192033

>>1190966
Don't be too hard on yourself, in a way it's impressive that you - and everyone else who posted on the site with good intentions - held out for so long. All good things need maintenance.

In the past I've been critical of your moderation style, but I think you were just cooking with the ingredients you had.

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>>1192059

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>>1192067
Yeah funny how u arent able to do that

 No.1192213

>>1191753
>Rarity -- poster appeals to societal implications of posting in a certain way in attempt to both acknowledge flutterpost's feelings as well as change behavior for the good of society
I can see that. To be honest.

>>1191755
>Do you choose an avatar because that avatar matches your actual personality?
>Do people form an online personality based off of the avatar they chose (and thus RP elements)?
>Or are observers predispositioned to read a persons personality based on the avatar they see?

That's all quite interesting! I essentially agree!

I suppose an objective analysis of human behavior that tries to be really fair-minded (such as what I used to do, a bit, when working for my college's English Department and Economics Department as a formal student assistant studying things) would say that all of those trends occur at the same time.

While one of the trends probably is stronger than the other two, that chronologically they take place during the same timeframe makes things blur in our minds.

 No.1192269

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 No.1192271

I cried real tears, Moony.

 No.1192310

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>>1192307
Ok

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>>1192269
>extremely blurry
D:

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>>1192327
>extremely blurry

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 No.1192487

>>1191838
ligma balls lmao gottem.
Also, thanks for the kind words, but we didn't start shit. We just gave a place for it to go, for better or for worse

 No.1192544

>>1191791
You talk a lot of talk about being better now and such over the years yet you continue to talk and treat people nasty when it's convenient for you. Sometimes even people who didn't do shit to you prior. You're a big case of "I'll believe it when I see it". That doesn't mean I'll shun you but you already do a good job of shunning people yourself.

 No.1192550

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>>1192544
"There are many doors in life, Ed boy."

 No.1192551

>>1192550
There was more to say before you edited that. Regardless, you aren't taking some doors you could be to make things better with some people.

 No.1192552

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>>1192551
It seemed a bit redundant, and unnecessary so I took it out. And yes, you are correct. I've certainly conducted myself in some pretty assholish ways. I could sit here and blame the alcohol, drugs, personal life events that have left me volitile, untrusting, and ultimately trapped between broken and determined to chase away everyone around me, but I feel that it would undermine my behavior. I could talk about all of the death, violence, abuse, and unspoken issues I've experienced.

And yes, these things do happen, and yes, it does influence us, but I also believe that regardless of such; those excuses are more so of a means of understanding rather than.. well, an excuse. In a way, I was lashing out at everyone around me for the things I couldn't change, rather than simply treating people like human beings.

Do I feel bad about it? Yes. Will I let myself eternally suffer over it? No. All I can do is try to be a decent person, and try to make some dumb jokes that I hope people will laugh at. Believe it or not, in the end, I just wanted to be people's friend, even if I didn't act like it.

The point of my original post was the Moony (Along with a handful of other people) were the only ones to really see that. And Moony, despite my lies, vulgar language, trollish intentions, insults, and spine coated acid skin; sat there and supported me with words of support and love; like I was some kind of hidden Undertale boss. (And trust me. I've said some pretty crazy unhinged shit to the guy.)

I was vouching for his character, I suppose. Showing him that I appreciate him.

 No.1192554

>>1192552
I didn't ask you to eternally suffer or even suffer. In fact that might be counter-productive in my maybe controversial opinion. Even so much as a apology to the relevant parties specifically would be a clear step above basically nothing. It would be the least you could do at least in one case. I assume you at least have a slight idea of what I'm talking about.

 No.1192555

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>>1192554
One step at a time. You can't rush a redemption after all. It has to be genuine, sincere, and natural. I've apologized to a lot of people as it is, but if you, or anyone for that matter want to talk one on one about things, then perhaps somewhere else that isn't the thread dedicated to talking about the site's future.

(That doesn't include apologizing about my personal opinions or preferences either. I'm not gonna get pressured into apologizing about that shit.)

 No.1192563

>>1192555
I had hoped you'd come on your own but that never happened which led to where we are with me replying to what I initially replied to. But very well no more for this thread I suppose.

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>>1192563
I've been more than reasonable anon. I offered a way to speak to me outside of this thread, said I feel bad for some of the things I've said, ect. But if that's how you feel, then while I feel terrible that you are upset, I simply will not let it tread me from the path I am seeking. I am not telepathic, anon.

 No.1192565

>>1192564
I don't know what you mean I didn't say much of anything other than explain how we got here and why I hoped you'd come first. Nothing very demanding or hurtful said.

 No.1192567

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>>1192565
Guess that makes two people a little confused at this point. Probably a communication error. Anyway, have a good night. Gonna post a few music links and go to bed

 No.1192601

>>1191008
Putting gigantic grey spikes on a chair like that probably winds up being actually really annoying when one has to deal with cleaning and other things keeping your furniture alright. If we're honest.

 No.1192619

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>>1192601
>cleaning

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>>1190966
While I am not that active on Ponyville.us for the same reasons I was not that active on OG Ponychan the last years of it's run, you still made great effort into continuing the spirit of kinship that I found Ponyville.us more comfortable than late-Ponychan. When Ponychan was revived, I decided to just stick with Ponyville.us than going back and forth (Other than going to new Ponychan's /rp/ board for RP-session with Clarity and Boat). I and Clarity are still around and rather active here, even if it's mostly around the nooks and corners.

(Plus, it doesn't help we haven't had fresh MLP:FiM content that's actually "good" in a long while.)

>and it is my fault for not taking harsh action and trying to force all of you to love others into being
This statement has me a little worried for you, given you can't "force" people to love. Love is often by choice and often when it wants to.

I'm not saying you're wrong, just be careful on what you're willing to do to make it right.

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>>1192705
Again your problem poster

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>>1192702 ok bye

 No.1192748

I lurk

 No.1192842

>>1192748
do you teach your kids slurs?

 No.1192896

>>1192842
Absolutely not.

 No.1192902

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I'm fine with using accounts if that's something you want to do

 No.1192916

>>1192842
They're gonna learn around you and your hubby

>>1192902
Hope you're doing well, ella

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 No.1192921

>>1192918
Lmao you're not above that and you're going to be clueless when they do learn. Be ready for it.

 No.1192927

>>1192921
Thanks.  I am aware of what I am doing.  

 No.1192930

>>1192928
Okay.

 No.1192931

>>1192930
kids are not stupid and they are going to figure out that the kind of person you are behind their backs, if they haven't already. That goes double for your husband. You cannot hope to teach them better. I know that isn't in either of you and the fact that you're pretending that you are is hilarious.

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 No.1192938

Anyways.  Enough with feeding the delulu, I would make an account if it helped in some way.  I don’t have an issue with it

 No.1192942

>>1192938
hey, you married the racist. If you don't wanna own up to that, that's fine.

 No.1192943

>>1192942
Didn’t ask!

 No.1193131

>>1190966
I do like the suggestions you're making here and I'm inclined to believe you can be way too kind and tolerant. While it's a shame to see a thread like this being made, I'm glad an opportunity is being presented to cultivate peace for your current posters.

 No.1193140

>>1193131
Moony has done a lot under difficult circumstances. Indeed.

 No.1193341

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You achieved a lot. You'll continue to achieve a lot.

I think you hit the nail on the head. If you don't stand for something you'll fall for anything.

 No.1193349

Karl Popper's concept of the tolerance paradox is pretty relevant here.

Basically any society that extends unlimited tolerance to the openly intolerant risk being dominated by the intolerant.

 No.1193378

>>1190966
Truth be told I think safe spaces are only possible on paper and not in actual reality. Especially on imageboards. Lord have mercy.


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