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 No.1163722[View All]

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Hey everyone! Have you ever heard of "36 Questions to Fall in Love With"?

they are a series of questions that you ask your date or partner to become more vulnerable and build bonds with them, and then fall in love! How Romantic <3

now let's put those questions on a random number generator and make everyone answer in random order!

Nothing says love like asking a deep personal question that exposes vulnerability right off the bat!

(now the partner in question could be anyone, it doesn't have to be me [unless you wanna ;3], so i'll leave that one open to you to adress!)

so the rules are simple!

roll a 1d36 die, and whatever question/prompt you land on, answer or do that thing! it's super easy!

(to roll a 1d36, type <1d36> but replace the <> with [] )

okay! let's start rollin!

36 Questions to Fall in Love

1.Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?

2.Would you like to be famous? In what way?

3.Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?

4.What would constitute a "perfect" day for you?

5.When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?

6.If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want?

7.Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die?

8.Name three things you and your partner appear to have in common.

9.For what in your life do you feel most grateful?

10.If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?

11.Take four minutes and tell your partner your life story in as much detail as possible.

12.If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would it be?

13.If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future, or anything else, what would you want to know?

14.Is there something that you've dreamed of doing for a long time? Why haven't you done it?

15.What is the greatest accomplishment of your life?

16.What do you value most in a friendship?

17.What is your most treasured memory?

18.What is your most terrible memory?

19.If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are now living? Why?

20.What does friendship mean to you?

21.What roles do love and affection play in your life?

22.Alternate sharing something you consider a positive characteristic of your partner. Share a total of five items.

23.How close and warm is your family? Do you feel your childhood was happier than most other people's?

24.How do you feel about your relationship with your mother?

25.Make three true "we" statements each. For instance, "We are both in this room feeling..."

26.Complete this sentence: "I wish I had someone with whom I could share..."

27.If you were going to become a close friend with your partner, please share what would be important for them to know.

28.Tell your partner what you like about them; be very honest this time, saying things that you might not say to someone you've just met.

29.Share an embarrassing moment in your life.

30.When did you last cry in front of another person? By yourself?

31.Tell your partner something that you like about them already.

32.What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about?

33.If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven't you told them yet?

34.Your house, containing everything you own, catches fire. After saving your loved ones and pets, you have time to safely make a final dash to save any one item. What would it be? Why?

35.Of all the people in your family, whose death would you find most disturbing? Why?

36.Share a personal problem and ask your partner's advice on how they might handle it. Then, ask your partner to reflect on how you seem to be feeling about the problem you have chosen.


Now let's roll and let the love flow!!!
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 No.1163872

1d36 = 13

 No.1163873

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>>1163872
Oh cool! My favorite number.

I would not want to know anything :)

It's no good, knowing the future.


1d36 = 7

 No.1163874

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>>1163873
Hmmm... some kind of health issue probably. I don't know what, but I just don't really take good care of myself.

1d36 = 34

 No.1163875

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>>1163874
My computer tower. Like I have a lot of sentimental stuff in my room, but in the end most of it can be replaced fairly easily. Some of the stuff I have saved on my computer can never be recovered.

hahaha which means I should probably back it all up online somehow.

1d36 = 5

 No.1163876

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>>1163875
Like the great rapper Jake Paul once said: It's every day bro.

I sing out loud whenever I listen to music lol which is almost every day.

I never sing to other people, fuck that noise.

 No.1163878

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>>1163865
I'd say the emptiness is a feature. Huge open prairies further south or forests in the north. There's nothing quite like a sunset over the flowing waves of prarie grass.

On long trips, even farms are fun. You can gauge the relative fortune of places based on how good each region's crops are developing.

 No.1163879

1d36 = 16

 No.1163880

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>>1163879
>16.What do you value most in a friendship?

I'm not sure really. I suppose respect? They need to be someone I can respect and see as worth my time.

 No.1163882

1d36 = 32

 No.1163883

>32.What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about?

Nothing. Absolutely nothing. And I mean that sincerely.

However, there is a time and a place for certain things, and there is such a thing as knowing your audience.

There's a VERY big difference between being in the privacy of your own home on your couch with a few friends that know when you are kidding and what yours and their own limits are, and sitting outside in front of a café loudly yelling things that any random passerby will hear.

I am by no means fussy with the jokes I make online, but I can assure you that me and a friend of mine on my couch watching a dumb movie will probably say things I would NEVER say in a YouTube video, especially since my YouTube videos aren't skits where I have a very clear-cut character to perform through.

None of that means I or my friends endorse the dark subject matter we joke about - the funny parts are the absurdity of the things, not the things themselves.

I believe humor is essential to survival. The world is too big, dark and complicated for us to handle it without allowing ourselves to laugh every now and then, even at the darker things that happen.

For example, Denmark has comedy events that are specifically designed for parents with terminally ill children - where joking about the situation is actively encouraged, because while the situation is obviously horrible, lighting the pressure a little goes a long way in making it bearable. And you better believe that for any dark joke being told, these comedians take doing this EXTREMELY seriously. It is not a job anyone takes lightly.

On the flipside, while you as a person are entitled to your own standards and your own ideas of what is and isn't acceptable, you are not necessarily owed everyone else catering to them. If a TV show or a stand-up comedian makes a joke you don't like (and here we are assuming said joke isn't made with the deliberate intention to cause actual harm) you can absolutely both dislike it and voice that - but you have no right to tell them they can't make that stuff to begin with. It may well be their way of dealing with things that just happen to be different from yours.

When you watch a show, or go to a performance or whatever, that's THEIR craft, and your ticket is not a proof of ownership, it's an entrance slip. You're paying for the privilige to hear what they have to say - you aren't hiring them to say whatever you just decided you want to hear but also never actually told anyone and just expect them to know instinctively.

The world is huge and complex. And so is every single of the billions of people on it. We're never gonna please absolutely everybody, and nobody is ever going to be able to please us 100% of the time. You're going to have to find your own way to deal with these things, and accept that other people have theirs.

And if we could all manage to do that, while respectfully just removing ourselves from the things that upset us without feeling the need to force it to become a gigantic culture war based entirely on our own sensibilities, we'd all be better off.

 No.1163886

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>>1163850
>30.When did you last cry in front of another person? By yourself?
To be honest, I don't really remember. I seem to have inherited my dad's stoicism, for better or worse. That's not to say that I never feel sad though.

1d36 = 15

 No.1163888

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>>1163886
>15.What is the greatest accomplishment of your life?
I'm not sure. When I was younger, I might have said "earning the rank of Eagle Scout", but as time goes on I feel like that holds less meaning for me. I still value the lessons I learned and the memories I have from scouting in general, but the rank itself doesn't mean as much to me now.
So now I guess I would say that creating gochan is my greatest accomplishment

1d36 = 33

 No.1163893

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1d36 = 16

 No.1163928

1d16 = 5



>>1163893
Somebody forgot they rolled, huh?

 No.1163929

>5.When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?
To myself? Friggin' earlier today. Just yesterday I was loudly singing along to random shit on my Spotify while I was drawing.

I do that a lot and do enjoy it, yet have never actually had any real singing training, much as i enjoy music. Would be nice to at least not feel like I am butchering stuff i love when I sing along.

also man, remember when we had Vocaroo threads?

 No.1163931

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1. Tracer, Moony, Navi.
2. Answered
3. No, I am rather direct in professional calls or calling a service line.
4. Being fed bonbons while watching movies.
5. To myself idk, we sang happy birthday to a coworker.
6. Mind.
7. Kidney failure
8. We fall into senior roles at work easy, we are snarky AF, big pp energy.
9. Wheat
10. Nothing.
11. Nah
12. I touch a cookbook and know how to make everything perfectly without reading.
13. Answered
14. Open a restaurant m, soon.
15. Chef
16. Honesty and communication
17. Seeing Wheat eat my cooking for the first time.
18. Waking up after ODing
19. I would go met everyone and give them one of my y knives.
20. People that want the best for the other and try and bring out the best in them.
21. I am made of love.
22. Everything.
23. Not talking about.
24. :fluf3:
25. We are both breathing manually, we are both swallowing, we both feel an itch on our thigh.
26. Ice cream.
27. I eat snails.
28. Everything
29. My pants split open in the middle of service and everyone saw my ass.
30. Last time Wheat was leaving. Yesterday.
31. Everything.
32. Nothing
33. "You are a leech that preys on the desperate and you prove there is no god for if there is he would smite you." I'm not gonna crash family gatherings.
34. Family cookbook.
35. Wheat and Lina
36. No.

 No.1163932

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Damn... so many unfortunate things being discussed in this chat related to family issues... not sure what at all to say... best wishes to everybody, of course...

1d36 = 25

>>1163823
Oh, we're extremely similar in a lot of ways. My long-term girlfriend and I are both transgender. We're both bisexual. We're both furries. We're both incredibly into Zootopia. We both have fursonas that we adore. We both have the same or similar kinks in a lot of ways as well. I can go on.

Here's us together:
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 No.1163933

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1d36 = 12

>>1163866
if you release an audio book, i'll gladly pick it up and give it a listen!

>>1163867
nah warden! i've done my dime! i'm on the straight and narrow!

in your infinite wisdom, please let me free!

>>1163871
i relate to this, my dad is very much my friend as well

>>1163873
you'll reach the future on your own time!

>>1163874
if you want to practice some tai chi or kung fu, i'd help you out!

>>1163875
the cloud is a life saver!

>>1163876
sing your heart out!

>>1163878
hey, i'm glad you enjoy that, and i do remember some pretty evenings coming home from seeing family. just not my cup of tea, but i do respect the tranquility and agriculture!

>>1163880
respect is very important

i don't think anything can be built without respect

>>1163883
being a comedian is being on the front line in the zeitgeist

never knowing which step will blow up in their face

but stepping forward anyways...

>>1163886
what is a gochan? is that like an image board?

>>1163929
ah yes! i loved thos vocaroo threads! it would be fun to see those again <3

>>1163931
yay <3

may your kidneys be blessed by the kidney gods!!!

>being fed bonbons while watching a movie

aww that sounds lovely <3

oof, i had my pants split open to before. i had to waddle like a penguin for the rest of the day!

>>1163932
awww <3

 No.1163934

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>>1163933
mastery over Blender would be so dope!

 No.1163935

>>1163933
So long as I have a roof so to do you.

I've got like another 30 in the tank.

With many pillows and worship.

I go commando always

 No.1163936

1d36 = 6

 No.1163938

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1d36 = 4

>>1163935
you absolutely deserve to be worshipped for like 100 years!

and feel the breeze between the knees ;3

 No.1163939

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>>1163938
already answered this one!

1d36 = 6

 No.1163940

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>>1163938
I agree but my saying that was more to express the extent of how much of a dinner and show people got.

Also I love that Charlie redesign

 No.1163941

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>>1163939
ah finally! i have a very clear answer for this one!

I would choose Body, and here's why

mind and body are not 2 different things, they are one in the same, and an effect on one effects the other. if one exersises and stretches and meditates, their mind benefits. if they eat garbage and lay around, then the mind suffers.

if the body stays young and healthy for the remainder of ones life? that is HUGE because of not only that health part of being able to regularly exersise and gain maximum benefit from good diet and practice, but also the social aspects as well

cause as one ages, the less they can do physically. they can't play rough, they can't party as much, they lose stamina in social settings a lot faster. and this is a trend that only worsens as one gets older, until they can barely leave home anymore if at all.

now this is somewhat mitigated by senior homes, providing a community for the elders that allows them to maintain social connections and exersise and diet for a while. but eventually that deteriorates into assisted living, then to intensive care, and then hospice. and that's assuming some other thing like heart attacks or a stroke or something doesn't take you out first.

we accept aging and death because it's natural and everyone will go through it, but if you look at it objectively, it's a terrible thing for anyone to go through under other circumstances. and having clarity through that may make it more tolerable, but it's gonna catch up to you


now if you have a healthy body, i would argue the mind will stay on par with your body. it will be worked out, it will be able to keep up momentum, and it will have a lot of the same upkeep that it has now or when you were younger

i am not a brain specialist, so i don't know if the brain itself will do things that is seperate of the body, and i can see somebody still get dimensia and alzheimers. but i think that would drastically reduce simply because your mind will be much more active for much longer for much more sustained moments at a time! plus your quality of life will just be better way over all, especially with the ability to just be social all you want, and to be just as rough and tumble in 50 years as you are now!

so i would choose body. i would want my health and to feel good in my body  well into my twilight years, to not fear falling, heart attack, or strokes or other degenerative things to the body. and i'd trust that would help my brain stay in tip top shape as well!

and if it doesn't, then i would be the easiest to manage dimensia patient int he memory care, and if i fall, nobody will worry that i broke a hip, or a shoulder, and that would be great for all of us!

>>1163940
hehehe, thou has class and thou has ass ;33

and isn't she cute? i found this redesign on twitter, and giving her more goat features is a lot of fun!

1d36 = 35

 No.1163944

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>>1163941
Honestly I don't even know how good a dementia patient with a fit body would be. Like you said, sure you wouldn't be worried about broken bones from short falls, but on the other in that state you could become violent. The only solace I had when my mother started hitting the doctors and nurses was that she was too weak to really hurt them.

Not to mention the loss of your identity. Peeled away like an onion until you yourself have nothing left but a loose impression of what you once were. Nowhere is home. No one is family.

The pain it inflicts on those around you. Until that pain becomes numbness. I guess it is different for everyone in that regard, how fast it's processed. Some people can't really do it at all.

If it were me, I think I'd rather live like Stephen Hawking than how my mom did.

 No.1163947

>>1163933
Also just, yanno, entertaining your friends and letting them entertain you with their company without assuming the worst of any statement they make in jest.

Yeah, they are. Too bad I poison them with my presence.

 No.1163951

1d36 = 23

 No.1163952

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>>1163951
>How close and warm is your family? Do you feel your childhood was happier than most other people's?
Yikes, I wish I could say we have any significant similarities or cultural tastes. My childhood was filled with lots of pain that hasn't healed yet. Leaving my family to forge my own path certainly does make me a bit happier, I'll say that. You know what, I am glad I'm an adult, lad. Hell yeah! Screw the past.

 No.1163969

>>1163826

Well if rerolling's okay, let's try one more
d36 = 34

 No.1163973

>>1163969

Trick question to get me to reveal my valuables, is it? Well, I'd either go with "what's monetarily most valuable" since that's sort of a big deal after you've lost most everything in a fire, or my NAS. By itself it's not that expensive but there's a lot of hard to replace stuff on that. Photos, documents, home videos... all good to go in just one grab.

One more: d36 = 16

 No.1163974

>>1163973
>>1163969

Hmm... Being able to talk to someone without worrying that I'm being a bother, and having the conversations easily click, that's the good stuff.

 No.1163982

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This reminds me of old /oat/ threads. I'll do two because fun.

1d36 = 12
1d36 = 35

 No.1163983

>>1163932
>Make three true "we" statements each. For instance, "We are both in this room feeling..."

I'm genuinely not sure how to do this!

I'm currently in a public place, but I'm in a room (with open doors) in which I'm by myself!

 No.1163985

1d36 = 26
1d36 = 26

 No.1163986

>>1163985
Wow okay fuck you RNGesus

>26.Complete this sentence: "I wish I had someone with whom I could share..."
Hmmm. Actually not sure. I guess someone I could share more of my creative endeavors with. The only real IRL creative partner I have is the guy I do a podcast with, and as much as I enjoy that, I wish I had  someone that "got" and collaborated on otehr things I wanna do with videos, games, etc.

 No.1163987

1d36 = 31

 No.1163988

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>>1163982
>If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would it be?
That's a poorly-worded question. It's too open. One quality or ability could be 'I want to be a bit kinder' or 'I want to be princess regnant of the entire world'. Though maybe that's the idea, that I'm supposed to respond to it with how I initially interpret the query and people can infer stuff about me from that.

Anyway me bitching about the question being too open isn't actually answering the question. My first reaction was 'I want to wake up as a cisgirl, as in a girl who isn't a transgirl' so that's what I'm going with.

>Of all the people in your family, whose death would you find most disturbing? Why?
My mother. Haha joke about me posting Rydia goes here.

Basically she's the person I've most consistently been able to rely on for support throughout my life. And that means a lot considering I've done a lot of stuff I still beat myself up over like 15 years later or something.

Also I live with her and I don't know how the fuck to Exist in a house by myself they didn't teach me that shit at school.

 No.1163989

>>1163987
I think I've already done this in this thread, or something really close to that!

 No.1163999

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1d36 = 26

 No.1164004

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>>1163999
>I wish I had someone with whom I could share...
I dunno. I feel like the main thing I'm missing from my circle is someone to dress up and go out to music and dance events. I do have friends for certain gigs.

Other thing is finding clubs that actually play good music. Like seriously. Music is fucking trash.

 No.1164005

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1d36 = 22

 No.1164029

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>>1163888
>33.If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven't you told them yet?
That's kind of a difficult question. I try to tell people that I care about them, and the people I feel like I didn't convey that to, or didn't convey it enough I no longer have the opportunity to.

 No.1167537

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Are you making biased political chatroulette threads again, Noelle?
For shame.

Anyways, let's see what I can get.
d36 = 33

 No.1167541

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> 33.If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven't you told them yet?
I don't generally have much to say to people.

 No.1167601

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This looks cute, i'll try it

1d36 = 24

 No.1167602

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>24.How do you feel about your relationship with your mother?

I love my mom. She's a wonderful, loving, and intelligent person with an understanding of how to manipulate the system in ways I can only hope to understand someday. She can be very hot headed and impatient at times, but the number of positive memories and experiences I have with her vastly outweigh the negative ones.

This was fun, I'll do one more

1d36 = 34

 No.1167603

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>>1167601
>>1167602

>34.Your house, containing everything you own, catches fire. After saving your loved ones and pets, you have time to safely make a final dash to save any one item. What would it be? Why?

My house

Jokes aside, it would be this giant handmade alpaca skin rug from peru. It's priceless and irreplaceable. Other memories like pictures and videos I have stored safely on two different cloud sources and two different external hard drives, one of which is always kept in a sturdy fireproof box.

 No.1167615

Huh. This one is back.

1d36 = 29

 No.1167616

>Share an embarrassing moment in your life.
Literally any time I make anything and I remember I am terrible at most things?

In seriousness, though, I don't remember many like... actually that embarassing moments. I don't really give myself crap for "cringe" when I was a kid, for instance.

I did have a habit of sounding a lot more crass and harsh than I intended when I wanted to correct someone on the stuff they said to me, or if they misunderstood something I said - and I am definitely not proud of that, cause it sounded pretty assholish. It was never the intention, but I used to be a lot angrier and assume a lot more ill intent from folks. So I guess that's it?


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